It Starts with Us

How does Lily's relationship with her daughter, Emmy, influence her interactions with Atlas throughout the novel?

Discuss the significance of alternating perspectives between Lily and Atlas. How does this narrative choice enhance the story?

What role does forgiveness play in Lily's journey, particularly in her interactions with Ryle?

How does the setting of Boston contribute to the mood and themes of the novel?

What are some key differences in Lily's character from the beginning of the book to the end?

How does Atlas’s past affect his present decisions and interactions with Lily?

In what ways do Atlas's letters to Lily serve as a narrative tool, and what do they reveal about his character?

How does Ryle's presence impact Lily and Atlas's relationship, and what strategies do they use to manage his influence?

Discuss the theme of 'second chances' in the novel, particularly through the lens of Atlas's personal journey.

How do secondary characters like Alyssa and Marshall contribute to the main storyline and themes?

What pivotal moments do you think defined Lily's path toward healing and growth?

How does the novel address the complexities of co-parenting, and what insights does it offer into Lily's balancing act between personal happiness and parental responsibilities?

In what ways does the novel explore the idea of moving forward versus dwelling on the past?

How is the concept of home represented in the book, especially considering Atlas's history with homelessness?

What was your reaction to the resolution of Lily and Atlas's relationship? Did it meet your expectations?